As far as morals are concerned, I discovered precisely the opposite of what Göhre found in many areas. Above all, I consider his claim that men love freely, whereas women remain faithful, to be incorrect. The status of morals is exactly what I have examined most intensively, as it appeared to be the most important chapter. Discussions of women’s fidelity and men’s tendency toward free love obviously refer to the married contingent; almost everywhere – and I have collected detailed information – both husband and wife either remain faithful to each other or go their separate ways. Of course, I am not denying that there are exceptions, but these are in fact so rare that they are hardly worth mentioning.
Frequently, a woman brings an illegitimate child into the marriage, often two; but these are usually the children of the man she is marrying. At the factory, the girls speak quite innocently of their children, when they are teething or ill; the others listen sympathetically and none would even think of considering it an indecency. True, there is less eagerness for social interaction with these unmarried mothers, but only because the mothers of illegitimate children, no matter how young they may be, are more earnest, less concerned with pleasure and appearances, and generally tend toward a more stable lifestyle. On Sundays, this sort of woman often goes for walks with her neatly groomed child and her darling, and her own mother often watches them proudly from the doorstep.
In many cases, female workers live in concubinage with male workers; for example, on our factory floor, one worker had lived for three years with a master weaver in Dresden, had spent one year with a stoker in Zwickau, and was currently living with a spinner in Chemnitz, with whom she had been for six months; there were no children, however.
However free and coarse female workers may be in their love lives, they display deep and serious indignation over any type of prostitution, especially when it concerns girls who sell themselves to “elegant gentlemen.” Sure, their own darlings may give them clothes, jewelry, lingerie, but they do not accept payment for their love; the gifts have to be voluntary.